A SUCCESSFUL TRANSITION TO A TODDLER BED

PETITE AMÉLIE ADVISES ON A SUCCESSFUL TRANSITION TO A TODDLER BED

Replacing your infant's cot with a toddler bed is one of those special milestones—much like their first taste of mash.

It marks a new stage and a reminder that your little one is growing up and leaving behind the world of newborns. While it’s often an exciting change, it can also feel a bit stressful. That’s why we’ve put together a few tips to help make the transition as smooth as possible—for you and your child!

TIP N°1: PPREPARING YOUR CHILD FOR A TODDLER BED

Switching to a toddler bed is a decision best made together with your child. You could start by showing them a photo of the bed you’ve chosen or even taking them along to see a few options. Flipping through catalogues together can also be a fun way to get them involved.

As for choosing the “right time,” there’s no one-size-fits-all age. The ideal moment is when your little one shows signs they’re ready—and when you feel they are too.

Keep in mind a few practical considerations: they’ll need to be physically capable of safely getting down from a low surface, such as a sofa, or climbing out of bed feet-first.

The “right moment” often coincides with their first attempts to climb out of their cot. As you know, this can be dangerous, so it’s better to prevent any risky adventures by transitioning to a toddler bed. This way, you can avoid any potential falls and keep your little one safe.

To make the change more exciting, try looking at pictures together or reading stories about a “big girl” or “big boy” bed. This can help them feel familiar and enthusiastic about their new sleeping setup. Make it a fun milestone to look forward to!

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TIP N ° 2: MAKE THIS CHANGE A HAPPY ONE!

Let’s face it, it’s not always straightforward—any big change can feel a bit overwhelming for children. But it’s important to remember that transitioning to a toddler bed is ultimately a positive step.

You might be wondering: “Will my child fall out of bed? Will they come and wake us up at 3am—or far too early in the morning? Will they stay in bed or start playing with their LEGO?”

These are natural concerns, and most have simple solutions. As for the rest, it’s part of embracing the fact that your little one is growing up.

The key is to set your worries aside and make this moment a happy one! Why not turn it into a special occasion? Invite friends or family over for a fun afternoon tea to celebrate the arrival of the new bed. Show your little one how exciting this change can be by decorating their room with bunting, balloons, or even a banner.

Celebrating the move to a toddler bed helps your child feel valued and reassured that everything is going to be just fine. After all, it’s a big milestone—and who doesn’t love a little family party to mark the occasion?

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TIP N° 3: EXPLAIN THE BENEFITS OF A "BIG" BED

When introducing your child to their new bed, it’s helpful to highlight all the exciting benefits:

It’s just as secure as their cot. You can reassure them by showing that the new bed has protective barriers to prevent falls, helping them feel safe and snug.
It’s practical too! Some toddler beds come with a storage drawer—perfect for stashing their favourite toys or treasures.

It’s made for big kids! Explain that they’ve grown so much, they need a bed that’s just as big as they are. This can make them feel proud and excited about the change.
It gives them independence. A toddler bed allows them to climb in and out on their own, whether it’s time for a nap or bedtime. They’ll love the freedom to get cosy when they’re sleepy.
It’s perfect for bedtime stories. Show them how you can sit comfortably by their side while reading their favourite book—making storytime even more special.
And it’s good for you too! A toddler bed is much kinder on your back, as you won’t need to lean into a cot anymore.

Finally, don’t forget to celebrate their first night in their “big” bed. Let them know how proud you are of them and encourage them to feel proud of themselves too. This is a milestone worth celebrating!

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TIP N ° 4: ONE CHANGE AT A TIME

It’s best to avoid combining multiple major changes during the same period. For example, if a new sibling is on the way, consider transitioning your child out of the cot either a few weeks before or after the baby’s arrival. This helps them feel valued in their new role as a big brother or sister.

Other moments to avoid include:

Starting with a new nanny or childminder.
Moving to a new house.
Starting at a new nursery or school.

If the cot will be passed down to the new baby, it’s a good idea to wait a few weeks between transitions. This ensures your child has had time to fully adjust to their “big bed” before seeing their old cot being used by the new sibling.

Taking things one step at a time can make the process smoother and more reassuring for your little one.

TIP N ° 5: AVOID BACKTRACKING
Once you’ve transitioned your child to their new bed, it’s important to avoid going back to the cot. Backtracking may signal to your child that the change wasn’t the right decision. By staying consistent, you reinforce that this is the right time, a choice you made together, and there’s no need to return to the cot.

If the adjustment feels tricky at first, don’t worry—there are plenty of ways to reassure them. Reading a bedtime story together while lying in their new bed can help create a sense of comfort. Adding a cosy bedside lamp or a night light can also make a big difference, helping them feel safe and secure in their new space.

With a bit of patience and these simple comforts, your child will soon embrace their “big bed” with confidence.

A FINAL TIP: TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS

Always remember that your child is unique, and there’s no set age for making the transition. As a mum, dad, or carer, you’ll know when the time is right for your little one—it’s all about when they’re ready.

Be patient, and take comfort in knowing that no child stays in their cot forever. This is just another step in their journey of growing up, and with your support, they’ll adapt when the time comes.

We hope these tips have been helpful as you prepare for this exciting milestone!

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